The 4 Month Sleep Regression

The 4 Month Sleep Regression 

I remember this phase like it was yesterday as it was one of the most chal lenging moments I faced after becoming a new parent.  

The 4-month sleep regression is not a phase it is PERMANENT. I do not  like to call it a regression” as it is more of a progression”! For the first three months of your babys life they will spend more time asleep than awake, however after four months, our babies move from the newborn  phases of sleep into more adult-like sleep stages. Your babys brain becomes more active and they will experience more time in a lighter, non REM sleep stage which causes them to wake up more frequently, generally  after 45 minutes. 

If you have previously fed, held, patted or bounced your baby to sleep then  this is when you may find it is no longer working as effectively as it was.  This is simply because your baby is more aware of their surroundings and  therefore, will wake up more frequently to check their environment. Due  to this, if anything is different, e.g. if you are no longer feeding, patting or  bouncing then they will be quick to let you know about it.  

What happens? 

When you place your sleeping” baby in their cot, the chances are they will only sleep between 20 -45 minutes and will then wake up quite alarmed. In  order for them to go back to sleep they will require the same process as  you carried out previously including feeding, rocking or bouncing, Does  this sound familiar?? 

It is rather like us falling asleep on the lounge and waking up outside on  the grass!  

What you may experience: 

  • Your baby will not sleep – full stop.
  • You spend more time trying to get them to sleep than they are asleep • They suddenly require assistance in going to sleep and staying asleep • Increased crying, irritability and fussiness during the day
  • Not feeding well throughout the day due to being easily distracted, which then creates multiple night waking because they are genuinely hungry. • Naps have become shorter (usually around 45mins)  

How long does it last? 

Regressions generally last anywhere from a few days to a few weeks,  however the four-month regression is different. If you have not taught your  baby to sleep on their own without you feeding or rocking them to sleep,  then this is a good time to start as this is where you can establish positive  sleep associations to replace the current sleep prop – YOU!  

Tips for dealing with this Progression.” 

  • Stick to an age-appropriate routine as children thrive on routine and consistency. It makes them feel secure knowing what comes next. En sure you pay close aPenIon to your babies sleep cues and wake win dow to avoid over-tiredness.  
  • Incorporate some wind-down time before naps and bedtime to give your child the best chance of relaxing before sleep. Take your baby into a quiet room where you can read a book, sing a song, or offer a  cuddle before going to sleep.  
  • Incorporate a bedtime routine and keep it simple and no longer than 30-45 minutes. A warm bath, a massage, a full feed, and then place your baby in the cot awake. You can also offer an earlier bedtime if  necessary. Sleep regressions can lead to missed sleep, which can  lead to over-tiredness.  
  • Keeping your baby swaddled during this time can be of real benefit as It will help keep them calm and feeling more secure during this time of change.
  • This is a great time to introduce a comforter as In my experience ba bies with comforters are happier, settle better and are generally more content when sleeping independently. 
  • Be flexible, if that means naps are in the pram, car or carrier more often than usual then dont stress and dont beat yourself up. Having your child sleep in the car or on the go is going to be better than having to deal with an over tired baby. 
  • Optimise the sleeping environment by ensuring that your childs room is dark and that you have white noise on (keep the white noise on for the whole duration of the nap and throughout the night) , also note that an ideal room temperature for your child is between 19-22  degrees. 
  • Ensure your baby is FULL and maintain adequate feeds during the day, do not be afraid to offer more feeds, more often. The four-month regression often coincides with a growth spurt that may make your  baby hungry. 
  • Start to place your baby down drowsy but awake. You can help your baby soothe by offering either physical or verbal reassurance. Note that this takes time, so consistency is the key. 
  • Lastly, remain calm and patient to your babys needs as babies feed off our energy. If you are calm, they are calm. No maPer how bad you think things are, keep in mind, everything is fixable!  

Author: Chantal Murphy, Owner of Baby Sleep Magic , Baby Sleep Magic App and Episode 47 guest


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